
{"id":7302,"date":"2023-12-05T06:42:11","date_gmt":"2023-12-05T06:42:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/matrixbricks.us\/suncrest\/?p=7302"},"modified":"2024-09-21T10:33:52","modified_gmt":"2024-09-21T10:33:52","slug":"loved-one-refusing-hospice-care-strategies-for-providing-support","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/matrixbricks.us\/suncrest\/loved-one-refusing-hospice-care-strategies-for-providing-support\/","title":{"rendered":"Loved One Refusing Hospice Care? Strategies for Providing Support"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Someone you hold dear meets the criteria for<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/matrixbricks.us\/suncrest\/hospice\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">hospice care<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, but they\u2019re against the idea. Sound familiar?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">At Suncrest Hospice of Cincinnati, we know how difficult it can be when a loved one doesn\u2019t acknowledge the need for assistance. However, this scenario is a common one. Medical professionals and family members agree that hospice support would be the best option, but the patient is completely opposed.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For some, the reason for refusing hospice care is a determination to continue fighting the terminal illness. Others value their privacy and independence too much to accept extra help. And sometimes, people balk at entering hospice because they\u2019re in denial about the inevitability of death. In any case, every competent adult has the right to make their own decisions regarding their care.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That said, people also have the right to change their minds. If your loved one is objecting to hospice care, here\u2019s what we suggest.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-9151 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/matrixbricks.us\/suncrest\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/hospice-care-Cincinnati.webp\" alt=\"hospice care Cincinnati, Ohio\" width=\"1000\" height=\"667\" srcset=\"https:\/\/matrixbricks.us\/suncrest\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/hospice-care-Cincinnati.webp 1000w, https:\/\/matrixbricks.us\/suncrest\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/hospice-care-Cincinnati-300x200.webp 300w, https:\/\/matrixbricks.us\/suncrest\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/hospice-care-Cincinnati-79x53.webp 79w, https:\/\/matrixbricks.us\/suncrest\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/hospice-care-Cincinnati-768x512.webp 768w, https:\/\/matrixbricks.us\/suncrest\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/hospice-care-Cincinnati-900x600.webp 900w, https:\/\/matrixbricks.us\/suncrest\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/hospice-care-Cincinnati-675x450.webp 675w, https:\/\/matrixbricks.us\/suncrest\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/hospice-care-Cincinnati-24x16.webp 24w, https:\/\/matrixbricks.us\/suncrest\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/hospice-care-Cincinnati-36x24.webp 36w, https:\/\/matrixbricks.us\/suncrest\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/hospice-care-Cincinnati-48x32.webp 48w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/>Listen with Respect<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sit down with your loved one and calmly listen to what they have to say about hospice. Ask why they\u2019re rejecting the option, but don\u2019t argue with their reasoning \u2013 while you may not be in agreement, everyone deserves the chance to explain their views.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>Offer Validation<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Demonstrate that you understand your loved one\u2019s hesitance to enter hospice and let them know they have the freedom to decide what happens next. Instead of pushing for acceptance of your viewpoint, focus on putting their mind at ease.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>Share the Facts<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Once you know why your loved one is saying no to hospice care, you can address their concerns. Provide factual information, mentioning details about the many services available and how hospice works \u2013 but be sure to take a gentle and gradual approach.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>Recruit Others<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Instead of hearing about the benefits of hospice care from you, might your loved one be more receptive to advice from another person? Whoever that is, whether it\u2019s their best friend, a clergy member or someone else, ask them to be part of the conversation.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>Change Course<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If the reason your loved one is disinclined to accept hospice care is because they want to continue curative treatments, palliative care may be the right choice for now. Later on, if their illness progresses, they can make the transition to hospice care.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>Connect with an Expert<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A hospice professional can offer more insight on what your loved one has to gain by entering hospice care. Ask if you can arrange a meeting, stressing that they don\u2019t have to begin the admission process \u2013 you\u2019d simply like to get more information.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>Tips on Initiating the Conversation<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When a loved one refuses hospice care the first time it\u2019s mentioned, figuring out a way to bring up the topic again can be challenging. To make things a little easier, consider these pointers from the professional team at Suncrest Hospice of Cincinnati:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Only open the discussion when you\u2019re at a location that\u2019s private, comfortable and free of distractions.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Consider how your loved one is feeling \u2013 if they\u2019re tired, irritated or distressed, it\u2019s not the right time for the conversation.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Get other family members there to discuss the matter or have a one-on-one chat, whichever approach your loved one would prefer.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you\u2019re nervous about raising the subject of hospice care, take comfort in knowing that it\u2019s probably already on their mind. Your loved one may be well-aware that their health is in decline and that the end is near, and you reopening the possibility of arranging for hospice support may come as a relief. At the same time, you\u2019ll want to choose your words carefully. Listen for cues, like a mention of worsening symptoms or talk of a recent hospitalization, then consider starting with one of these lines:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I have a few questions about your wishes for the future.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Can you and I chat about the pros and cons of hospice care?<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I\u2019m worried that you\u2019re not getting the level of support you need.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Given where things stand with your health, what matters most to you now?<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I\u2019d like to talk about your overall goals in terms of ongoing care.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If your condition changes, how would you want to handle the situation?<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">People often experience profound emotions when discussing hospice care and planning for the end of life. Be ready to respond in a sympathetic manner, and you may be able to keep the conversation on track. For instance, if your loved one gets emotional, you might say:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I can see that you\u2019re getting a little annoyed.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It seems like this chat is making you sad.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Can you tell me how you\u2019re feeling right now?<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I\u2019m here to listen, and I really want to know how I can help.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Contact Suncrest Hospice of Cincinnati Today<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Your loved one may refuse hospice care when first asked about the option, but there\u2019s a strong chance they\u2019ll eventually agree \u2013 and with the Suncrest team of skilled professionals providing support, they\u2019re sure to feel good about their decision.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For more information, or to arrange for a<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/matrixbricks.us\/suncrest\/location\/cincinnati-oh\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">hospice care<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> consultation at your loved one\u2019s home, contact our office in Cincinnati, Ohio, anytime.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Someone you hold dear meets the criteria for hospice care, but they\u2019re against the idea. Sound familiar?\u00a0 At Suncrest Hospice of Cincinnati, we know how difficult it can be when&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":410,"featured_media":9151,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-7302","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-blog"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/matrixbricks.us\/suncrest\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7302","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/matrixbricks.us\/suncrest\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/matrixbricks.us\/suncrest\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/matrixbricks.us\/suncrest\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/410"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/matrixbricks.us\/suncrest\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7302"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/matrixbricks.us\/suncrest\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7302\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9152,"href":"https:\/\/matrixbricks.us\/suncrest\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7302\/revisions\/9152"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/matrixbricks.us\/suncrest\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/9151"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/matrixbricks.us\/suncrest\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7302"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/matrixbricks.us\/suncrest\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7302"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/matrixbricks.us\/suncrest\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7302"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}