
{"id":2604,"date":"2021-05-18T07:56:10","date_gmt":"2021-05-18T07:56:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/matrixbricks.us\/suncrest\/?p=2604"},"modified":"2024-09-23T08:51:00","modified_gmt":"2024-09-23T08:51:00","slug":"bringing-visitors-to-hospice-care","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/matrixbricks.us\/suncrest\/bringing-visitors-to-hospice-care\/","title":{"rendered":"Bringing Visitors to Hospice Care"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Hospice is end-of-life care, and as such, can bring about lots of complex feelings. Visitors often come to hospice to \u201csay goodbye\u201d to a friend or relative, but is this sometimes inappropriate? The team at <a href=\"https:\/\/matrixbricks.us\/suncrest\/\">Suncrest Home Health and Hospice<\/a> of Fremont has some advice for friends and relatives of hospice patients regarding visitors.<\/p>\n<h2><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-9311 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/matrixbricks.us\/suncrest\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/visitors-to-hospice.webp\" alt=\"visitors to hospice\" width=\"1000\" height=\"581\" srcset=\"https:\/\/matrixbricks.us\/suncrest\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/visitors-to-hospice.webp 1000w, https:\/\/matrixbricks.us\/suncrest\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/visitors-to-hospice-300x174.webp 300w, https:\/\/matrixbricks.us\/suncrest\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/visitors-to-hospice-91x53.webp 91w, https:\/\/matrixbricks.us\/suncrest\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/visitors-to-hospice-768x446.webp 768w, https:\/\/matrixbricks.us\/suncrest\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/visitors-to-hospice-24x14.webp 24w, https:\/\/matrixbricks.us\/suncrest\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/visitors-to-hospice-36x21.webp 36w, https:\/\/matrixbricks.us\/suncrest\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/visitors-to-hospice-48x28.webp 48w, https:\/\/matrixbricks.us\/suncrest\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/visitors-to-hospice-900x523.webp 900w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/>Reconciling Differences with the Dying<\/h2>\n<p>Some lives are longer and more complicated than others. Some families are fraught with more tension and turmoil than others. As longtime veterans of the <a href=\"https:\/\/matrixbricks.us\/suncrest\/hospice-care-a-beautiful-calling\/\">world of hospice care<\/a>, we have seen a lot at <a href=\"https:\/\/matrixbricks.us\/suncrest\/suncrests-goal-is-to-help-both-patients-families\/\">Suncrest Home Health and Hospice<\/a>, including friends and relatives who may have had feuds with the patient to reconcile their differences before the patient dies.<\/p>\n<p>It sounds like a good idea, but is it really? If a hospice patient asks to see a friend or relative with the intention of burying the hatchet, that person can consider the request. But what about the visitor who comes to see a patient who is unawares? The patient might feel blindsided. They may not want to see the visitor. This may be disappointing to the visitor, who may even be insistent.<\/p>\n<h2>Stress Affects a Patient\u2019s Prognosis<\/h2>\n<p>The truth is, even regular visitors who have good relationships with the patient can sometimes have less-than-ideal visits.<\/p>\n<p>The most important thing to remember is the patient\u2019s health. Any type of scene or disagreement can negatively affect the <a href=\"https:\/\/matrixbricks.us\/suncrest\/what-is-the-right-thing-for-the-patient\/\">health of the patient<\/a>. And the residual unpleasant feelings can last for days or even weeks, impacting the patient\u2019s health.<\/p>\n<p>All too often, friends and relatives of patients choose this time to unburden their soul and ask for forgiveness. But they must ask themselves if this is really fair.<\/p>\n<h2>Managing Visits in Hospice Care<\/h2>\n<p>If you are the gatekeeper for the patient \u2014 whether you\u2019re a husband or wife, son or daughter, brother or sister or another relative \u2014 you may want to limit the patient\u2019s visits with difficult friends or relatives that they never particularly got along well with.<\/p>\n<p>Hospice care is meant to be peaceful, but there is necessarily almost always some stress involved, as there would be with anyone who is suffering with a terminal illness. They want to enjoy their last days and make the most of them \u2014 that\u2019s why they chose hospice care. Allowing anything to get in the way of the sense of peace they have worked hard to achieve is not fair to the patient.<\/p>\n<h2>Suncrest of Fremont Can Help<\/h2>\n<p>The hospice nurses, social workers and therapists at <a href=\"https:\/\/matrixbricks.us\/suncrest\/location\/san-jose\/\">Suncrest Home Health and Hospice of Fremont<\/a> can help you with issues you\u2019re struggling with regarding allowing visitors to see the patient in hospice care. This is a difficult time for you as well, and you need to practice self-care, reduce stress and just say no to insistent and obtrusive friends and relatives.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"\/\">Contact us<\/a> for advice and support regarding caring for friends and relatives in hospice care.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hospice is end-of-life care, and as such, can bring about lots of complex feelings. Visitors often come to hospice to \u201csay goodbye\u201d to a friend or relative, but is this&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":392,"featured_media":9310,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-2604","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-blog"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/matrixbricks.us\/suncrest\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2604","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/matrixbricks.us\/suncrest\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/matrixbricks.us\/suncrest\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/matrixbricks.us\/suncrest\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/392"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/matrixbricks.us\/suncrest\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2604"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/matrixbricks.us\/suncrest\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2604\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9312,"href":"https:\/\/matrixbricks.us\/suncrest\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2604\/revisions\/9312"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/matrixbricks.us\/suncrest\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/9310"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/matrixbricks.us\/suncrest\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2604"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/matrixbricks.us\/suncrest\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2604"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/matrixbricks.us\/suncrest\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2604"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}